Ksenia Trefilova Psychologist
I help you see your life differently so it feels lighter.
Ksenia Trefilova Psychologist
I help you see your life differently so it feels lighter.
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I help you see your life differently so it feels lighter.
I help you see your life differently so it feels lighter.
Life’s challenges can feel heavy, but you don’t have to carry them alone. I offer a safe and supportive space to help you understand your emotions, process past experiences, and move forward with confidence.
Together, we create a space where you can pause, listen to yourself, and find new meanings. Your transformation is a living process, and I respectfully support you, helping you unlock your own strength.
My name is Ksenia Trefilova, I’m a psychological consultant and researcher, with a deep dive into emotional resilience and self-discovery. My mission? Helping people navigate life’s tricky twists and turns, reconnect with who they truly are, and turn pain into the kind of personal growth.
🔹 For those wanting to unlock their emotional identity and express feelings openly—even when it seemed impossible.
🔹 For those looking to rebuild trust in themselves, the opposite sex, and the world—to get back to feeling whole and strong, like you’re standing on solid ground again.
🔹 For those searching for belonging and a place in a new country—because you deserve to feel at home, wherever you are.
🔹 For those who’ve had mind-blowing insights during a psychedelic experience and now want to take those powerful moments and weave them into the fabric of your life.
📚 Education & Training
🎓 Postgraduate Training in Psychology
🎓 Specialized Training in Trauma & Addiction (InSight Gestalt Therapy Association, USA)
🎓 Training in helping to exit a cult and discover one's own identity (International Association for the Study of Cults and Sects)
🎓 Psychological Research & Emotional Integration (ICEERS Association, Spain).
📖 Featured in Psychologies Russia.
Alfried Längle (student of Victor Frankl), Jack Kornfield and Ken Wilber have shaped my perspective on psychology. I continue my study with Daan van Kampenhout, Marc Aixalà, Denis Sennikov, Maria Brazgovskaya, and Rafael Cortina. My seven-year journey through personal psychotherapy, guided by varied methodologies, has deepened my conviction that understanding oneself is the key to fulfillment.
I founded a mental health mobile start-up where together with a team of heroes, we fight unwanted loneliness in people by giving the words to express themselves - because when you can share, you can connect.
I combine deep emotional work with practical strategies to help you reconnect with yourself and navigate life’s challenges with clarity. My methods include:
🜀 Existential Analysis – Helping you explore meaning, purpose, and identity in your experiences.
🔹 Gestalt Therapy – Bringing awareness to your emotions and reactions to foster self-understanding and authentic relationships.
웃 Cognitive Therapy – Shifting unhelpful thought patterns to create more balanced and empowering perspectives.
◯ Systemic Therapy – Understanding how family dynamics and social connections shape your emotions and behaviors, helping you build healthier relationships.
Each session is a space where you are truly seen and heard—where we work together to process, heal, and move forward.
Dani - 05-01-2025
Definitely, with your therapy I finished assimilating things that I had been working on for a long time in therapy and despite everything, I continued to suffer from them without finishing closing them properly. I never thought that the fusion of both things would be so fast, since I have been with the therapist for 6 years and I have made a lot of progress, but weeks before your therapy I felt stuck, I even began to think that perhaps I have been looking inward for too many years and I needed a change.
Anonymous - 22-12-2024
I want to say a big thank you to Ksenia. She helped me calm down in a difficult situation, and even more - I was able to bring out important thoughts and move towards solving the problem
Luis - 14-10-2024
My change has started with therapy and microdosing protocol. Relations with the partner improved too!
Dimitri - 07-10-2024
I did a hiking session with Ksenia about four months ago with follow up, and at the time, it felt really overwhelming. I was lucky to get a few months off work to figure out my life. Now, looking back, I realize that working with her was the best choice I made. She helped me see my resources, skills, and strengths- and helped me grow my faith in myself. Now i am at the moment of my life where I am opening my own business. Took me a while to get here.
Danny - 29-07-2024
To my own surprise, during sessions, I was able to voice events from my past that were very traumatic and dark, which I had never been able to share with anyone before. This process has helped me feel more like myself and more courageous. Additionally, I've gained confidence in my relationships with others. Her supportive and understanding approach made it possible for me to open up in ways I never thought I could.
Myriam - 29-07-2024
I worked with Ksenia for almost six months, and she was incredibly helpful in identifying my trauma and addictions. She guided me in understanding myself better and helped me distinguish what was truly mine from external influences. I've decided to take a break from our sessions to travel for a few months, but I can see myself coming back to her for support in the future. Highly recommend her for anyone seeking clarity and personal growth.
Oscar - 12-06-2024
I did the hiking with psychologist, I recommend it!
Aden - 27-04-2024 When I reached out to Ksenia I was going through some significant life changes and was struggling to find footing. In the intervening period I managed to find some direction through taking a bit of distance and with the help of some conversations with friends. I was feeling quite focussed and clear when I began my protocol with Ksenia. Then when the actual work it seemed to elevate me to an even higher level of clarity and focus.
I am an amateur athlete and monitor my heart rate and other health data via my smartwatch. This period with Ksenia saw my heart rate variability (which is used as a proxy for stress) improve drastically. I was happy to share this with Ksenia and she was very excited about it. This is a level of engagement that I had never experienced with a therapist before.
Ksenia was always available for me and it felt like this was not just a job for her. She made me feel heard with her compassion and patience. Her expertise helped me navigate through the complex emotions and difficult decisions that I was facing. I am very grateful to have had her support
Manal - 17-04-2024
Ksenia’s sessions helped me navigate the different layers of my identity and how they show up in my life. If you are ready to delve a bit deeper into yourself, she will for sure support you in finding clarity, understanding your inner roadmap and making peace with your mind.
Alexey - 29-02-2024
После нескольких сессий с Ксенией в моём состоянии появился лёгкий прогресс. Я начал делать упражнения, которым она меня научила, и вижу местами, появляется просвет. Более менее есть движение вперёд. Я буду на связи, если мне нужна будет дополнительная помощь.
Ответ Ксении: Пусть всё получается! Новые навыки самоценности, самоуважения и самоуверенности увеличиваются с каждым днём!
Anonymous - 19-01-2024
Good day. I would like to share that after the session it was the first time I actually slept relaxed & well. I would say since a few months ago. I just slept as a healthy human being. And I did not take any meds. I feel good in my heart. I feel it all and I feel well. Not euphoric, just well. I wanted to share, and I feel grateful. Being is cool.
Roberto - 19-10-2023
I had been living my life on autopilot for years until I connected with Ksenia. With her guidance and expertise, I delved into the darkest corners of my mind and confronted the demons I had been hiding for most of my adult life. Thanks to Ksenia's methods and her uplifting personality, I have rediscovered my path. For that, I will be forever grateful. Obrigado.
Алёна - 25-08-2023
Ксюша ,благодарю за помощь ты прекрасно чувствительна и специалист в любимом деле,твои советы прояснили и помогли мне.gracias
Ann - 05-08-2023
"Мне понравился специалист, было одно, что я до этого не слышала от других психологов, хотя думала что нового уже ничего не услышу. Это в какой то степени мне помогло. Благодарна Ксении Юрьевне за консультацию."
Tarana Suri - 21-08-2023
"Ksenia is an emphatic sensitive and caring person who thinks deeply and feels strongly. Her passion for understanding the human psyche is unbound and trust you are in good hands."
Valentina Fratu - 27-08-2023
"I went to the deepest holes of myself with Ksenia to discover my wholeness. Inner resources that we found with her in darkness of subconsciuosness will stay with me forever. She is open, very sensitive not only to psycological, emotional state of a person, but also reads and communictes through the wisdom of the body. Something wider is opening up in sessions with her. My gratitude"
Mack - 22-08-2023
"Ksenia is an incredible person and psychologist, she has opened up a whole new world where I am beginning to start truly enjoying, living and loving my life. She has such a great view on life and has great intuition, allowing her to truly engage with you and help you realize many things that are going on in your subconcious- where we avoid exploring into because of daily life. Integrating her wisdom into my life has facilitated my growth, through EMDR and Family Contesllations. (I previously didnt believe in this field as much as I do now). Thanks so much Ksenia."
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